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Relationship Strategist

by Shengji Daguai Open Source CommunitySkillGet organised

Reads chats you share and your dating situation, then suggests what to say or do next

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The problem it solves

It is midnight and you have reread their last message ten times, still not sure whether to reply, wait or let it go.

For People dating or in a relationshipPeople going through a breakup

Before
You read meaning into every short reply and ask friends who each say something different.
After
You get the facts and guesses laid out, one preferred next step, a message you can send and a point at which to stop.
Stars
★ 8.9k
License
MIT
Cost
Free
Level
Beginner
Contents
Includes scripts

Overview

Goutoujunshi is a Chinese-language relationship skill for Codex. You describe the situation or share chat screenshots and exported text; it first acknowledges how you feel, separates facts from guesses, then gives one preferred next step, a message you can send and a point at which to stop. It covers dating, conflict, uneven effort, breakups and marriage, for any gender or orientation. It suits people who keep replaying a conversation and want a clearer decision.

It keeps facts, guesses and unknowns apart before advising, and every suggestion ends with an observation window and a condition for stopping.

Try these first

Start with the first one: it is a small task you can check easily.

  1. They replied "ok, maybe" to my invitation. Help me read it and give me one reply I could send. [describe the conversation]First try · read-only

  2. Here are screenshots of our last week of chats. Separate what they actually said from what I am assuming.

  3. I am choosing between two people: [describe both]. Compare them and tell me what to watch for over the next two weeks.

  4. Remember this situation for next time.saves a local profile

Example prompts written by Agent Flows Hub.

What you get

From the creator's documentation.

OutputWhat it isReads
Emotion firstNames the feeling and trigger in a few sentences before any analysisWhat you share
Fact and guess splitLists known facts, reasonable guesses and key unknownsWhat you share
Chat analysisReads screenshots and exported text and confirms who said what before judgingWhat you share
Next stepOne preferred action with reasons, a message to send, a watch window and a stop conditionWhat you share
Local memoryAfter you agree, keeps a short profile you can view, pause or deleteYour computer

Good to know

Describe a dating or relationship situation, or share the chat itself, and get a short read on the emotions involved, a split of facts and guesses, and one preferred next step with a message ready to send.

Limits

  • The skill's instructions and knowledge base are written in Chinese, and its examples assume Chinese dating and legal contexts.
  • The project describes itself as relationship education and decision support, not a substitute for therapy, legal advice or emergency services.

Notes by (original project name: goutoujunshi), written from the creator's documentation, not from running it ourselves. Goutoujunshi: English README and install prompt · Goutoujunshi: skill instructions

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